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What would they think?
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Just the fact that you are interested in wearing hijab is a
wonderful thing in itself. It is a good sign that you are
serious about moving forward in this life as a better
Muslimah inshallah.
I remember when it was a week before I began to wear hijab
at my job, I couldn't help but ask a few people what they
would think If i began to wear hijab. In my heart, I knew
it was what I had to do. I remember feeling a little rushed
that I had to wear it before Allah s.w.t. wouldn't give me
the chance to be able to. Unfortunate things happen at the
blink of an eye, and we have to remember that as we go on
in this life. I believe that in your heart, you would not
want to leave this life not wearing hijab right?
A common question that goes through ones mind, prior to
wearing hijab is "What would they think"? If we worry
ourselves with what others think then who are we truly
serving in this life; the people or Allah s.w.t.? Let us
turn that question around and say "What would Allah s.w.t.
think?" and make a du3a and find the question in our
hearts.
Have you ever had a thought of wearing hijab to a place to
see what it would feel like? Perhaps on your walk to a
grocery store, or drive with it on to the mosque for
Jumu3a, or on an outting with your husband or brother to a
restaurant? If you decide to do this, make sure that your
intent is serious and for Allah s.w.t. Some may find doing
this as a useful tool for progression in coming to finally
wear hijab. Most importantly make a du3a (a sincere
wishful prayer) to Allah s.w.t. to give you strength to go
forth with this progressive move to wearing hijab.
Now if you bump into a friend, relative or someone you know
who questions you about this, here is what you say, with
conviction and from your heart: [Allah swt knows my
intention and this is what I feel I need to do to progress
in wearing the scarf, and I feel good about it.] If they
move forward to complain, just say again [Only Allah s.w.t
can understand my intent, and I feel good about what I'm
doing]. Period. It's important to let the person know that
you are comfortable with your decision and don't forget to
smile and feel good about it.
Those who are against wearing hijab will never encourage
you in your progression nor agree with you. When they begin
go judge you and dictate to you, accept what they have to
say as an opinion. Don't make those opinions a problem for
you, and let them go. When you challenge the opinion, you
are at the same time taking on all the issues that
accompany that opinion, issues that you can never
solve...and eventually it turns into a new problem for you.
Just trust yourself and how you want to progress in this
life as a Muslimah.
In general, if you feel in your heart that there is
something you can do that will help you in your progression
for wearing hijab, then go forth with it in full convicton.
Wa alaikum salam
The Canadian Muslim Staff
-Hijab Support
1-877-8-BUY-HIJAB
001-905-592-0218
hijabsupport@thecanadianmuslim.ca
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