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Layla in UK on June 21, 2010 at 09:52 AM said: Shannon It says in the quran surah 24 An-Nur : 31, "tell th believing women to lower their gaze and protect their private parts" This can be inturped in different ways. 1 or 2 of my muslim friends say that dressing modistly is fine and wearing hijab isn't compuserly. Most of my muslims friends say wearing hijab is compuserly and they wear hijab all the time when they are in public and in the pressents of none related men. I do that as well. Wearing hijab in a none muslim commuity can be quite hard as some people can be quite narsty but if you choose to wear hijab out in public, you've got to have quite a thick skin. I've had to do that. With your family, you can take it off infront of them as long as they are blood reltives. That what is says later on in that verse I said earlier. If you family don't know your muslim and your not prepared to tell them yet, then don't wear it but if they do know, then wear it and if they don't like it, well they've got to live with it. That's what I've had to do. It did take a little while for them to get used to the hijab but they are fine with it. My brothers do pull the odd joke about it and I have to see the funny side of it or just ignore it. I love wearing hijab and I pray that Allah will make it easy for you to wear it.

cheryl on June 15, 2010 at 01:49 PM said: how long will the shipping take if i live in canada?

Shannon on May 18, 2010 at 07:04 PM said: Hello, i am a new revert to Islam and am wondering, is hijab mandatory? How can i begin wearing it? My family is Swedish will they accept it? How often do i need to wear it?

Patricia on April 26, 2010 at 07:37 PM said: God Bless you Nour...it's clear I have a lot to learn

Nour on April 25, 2010 at 08:17 PM said: Dearest Patricia, The answer is straight how do you define happiness? and how do you define depression?.first: Happiness would be a natural consquence when an individual seeks honesty, asks allah for guidance , submits and trusts allah and acts by their words and actions with in the commands of quran and sunnah. Depression happens when we try to make our own rules and try to please ourselves , people at this point due to lack of knowledge , enlightment of the heart we become sad , impatient.Focus on this reading the quran and sunnah of the prophet start with the biography of the prophet Mohammed peace be upon him,,I recommend the sealed nectar. Remember have hope allah loves you and will never leave you. Salam alikom .

Patricia on April 20, 2010 at 07:44 AM said: I understand that but what about happiness. I don't think it's possible to struggle and be happy at the same time. Some can't handle the challenge and it turns into something more severe such as depression. I don't believe piety is the solution for depression...

Nour on April 19, 2010 at 08:28 PM said: Dearest Patricia, it is not difficult to Sincerely be honest and truly love Allah simply because Allah loved you first and that's why we were created to love allah back and to worship. In this world there are difficulties but the main reason for humanity is to worship allah only and not people like us we only struggle when we want to please people against the word of allah. and Also we are here to illuminate this truth that there is no creator but Allah. Once you submit honestly to this fact you are protected and remeber always trust Allah. how to trust Allah by reading the quran again if we hold on to the quran and the Sunna which is the by our Prophet peace been upon him we will never lose our way. giving Alms in away not showing it doesn't mean we hide our dignity wearing the hijab ,hiding the alms given to the poor or needy was to respect their feelings and first and furmost attesting to the fact that all what we have we give is only from allah and not to boast or brag or be pregiduice leading to a balanced society by respecting other peoples feelings. so read , Have Faith be modest have pride and may allah bless you.salam

Patricia on April 15, 2010 at 11:54 AM said: Um....that is too difficult! Strive for the cause of Allah , Kinda like your own Jihad. I don't deal with stress well at all. Isn't there something in the Quran that says, giving alms is rewarded more if in secret. I get that it's not haram to hide from my parents that I'm wearing hijab. I read the hijab stories on this site and theres one where her dad beat the living daylights out of her for being bold and wearing hijab in front of her parents. Non believers can act in dispicable ways and it's certainly not something I want to subject myself to...I can't and I won't because I want to be happy in life too. I can't be happy if I'm faced with daily greivances from my immediate family. I choose not to be overworked and stressed in this life because I like to smile and feel happy, and If a hijab is on my hair while that happening then I'll embrace it for as long as I can. As time goes on circumstances change and inshallah will wear it full time

nour on April 14, 2010 at 03:28 PM said: Dearest Patricia, I am glad you got this message but in the sura it doesn't say we should hide our faith or hijab > it clearly states to worship only allah even if your parents , kindred, brothers sisters do not or choose not to which is their dear loss> show your hijab and be proud to be a muslim and be gracious , pious , patient ,loving and show the world what is Islam by your straight actions and simply loving allah in what you say and do remember read , understand reflect and study the Quran and sunna you will find alaways the crystal clearst answer always and never lose trust in allah simply because Allah loves you. salamu alikom

nour on April 14, 2010 at 03:23 PM said: Dearest Patricia, I am glad you got this message but in the sura it doesn't say we should hide our faith or hijab > it clearly states to worship only allah even if your parents , kindred, brothers sisters do not or choose not to which is their dear loss> show your hijab and be proud to be a muslim and be gracious , pious , patient ,loving and show the world what is Islam by your straight actions and simply loving allah in what you say and do remember read , understand reflect and study the Quran and sunna you will find alaways the crystal clearst answer always and never lose trust in allah simply because Allah loves you. salamu alikom

Patricia on April 14, 2010 at 05:43 AM said: omg - mashallah! I had no idea there was an ayat in Quran for this! So basically because there is no partnership with Allah - go ahead and wear hijab. Still respect your parents, but it's okay to hide it from them because we can't expect them to accept our faith anyway. And if they do accept it - alhamdulilah rabi al alameen Thank you so much!!!

nour on April 13, 2010 at 07:18 PM said: Dearest Patricia, here is Aya 22 in quran Surat al Mujadila:says: You will not find a people who believe in Allah and the Last Day having affection for those who oppose Allah and His Messenger, even if they were their fathers or their sons or their brothers or their kindred. Those - He has decreed within their hearts faith and supported them with spirit from Him. And We will admit them to gardens beneath which rivers flow, wherein they abide eternally. Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Him - those are the party of Allah . Unquestionably, the party of Allah - they are the successful. ======= this is one of millions of sites that has the quran in english buy the quran and when you read get the answers to all your questions>http://quran.com/58 salamu alikom

Nour on April 13, 2010 at 07:06 PM said: Dearest Patricia, Your family needs to understand that you have the right to choose your faith and religion.In Islam muslims are obligated to obey and worship allah sobhanah first and then respect and be very kind and polite with your parents. No partnership with Allah.when you where the hijab and protect yourself and follow what allah asked us to do you will be blessed here on earth and thereafter do not be afraid of people no matter what their relation ship is> we human beings were created woship only allah in our heart and by our actions>.Please read the quran my dear and follow the teachings of our prophet peace be upon him and trust the allah sobhanah will protect you. its a free country and freedom of choice no one should dictate you what and what not to wear . Remember patricia my sister Allah loves you more than you know and you are on the right path hold on to quran read it understand it and Sunnah . Be patient with people understanding . They just do not know. May allah bless you and reward you for your scencirity ,purity and honesty with yourself.

patricia on April 12, 2010 at 05:15 PM said: I would have to hide from my family that im wearing it. I don't want to upset them and they are not very religious. Is hiding and wearing it considered a form of worship or being disobedient to parents who are not Muslim anyway??? Confused...

nour on April 8, 2010 at 08:04 PM said: dearest patricia, May allah bless you my dear> go a head and wear it> you only fear allah and you trust is only in allah you are on the right path read the quran and Sunna> and you will be happy. May allah bless you and provide you happiness and peace.

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